Sunday , 12pm , Miabella , Hauz Khas Fort Rd , New Delhi - do reach on time and talking about me , I'll reach by 12:30 something ( impatient by nature , never on time , hate waiting for someone else) . Hi! this is , let's just call this character Athena (Greek goddess of wisdom , stubbornness , arrogance , tactical , quite boastful , loving , kind , brave , caring) . Date no. who cares , others spend their weekend chilling with friends , she ends up dating , best part - free food service. Practically if you analyse this whole concept , benefit>risk , being a day date , safe to move around , you have someone to talk any kind of shit you want , no judgements and even if there is ( just look at them and smile coz there's no next time babe ) , and most important you'll learn what not to do on your next one .
Coming back , let's introduce the other main character , naming this one as Damon ( do watch the vampire diaries ) , characteristics- patient , can wait while doing his work side by side being an Investment banker , reaches before time ( it's a date after all , can't you just have a break from your so called punctuality norm) , organized in every aspect , a total opposite from her .
So sorry! Delhi traffic you know , sucks ( me and on time , never ).. no issues , have a seat.
Pulling out chair and stuff , complete gentleman vibes , umm, can we just talk after ordering food (empty stomach is not a good way to start ) , Vegetable Quesadilla , Penne Alfredo , Fresh lime ice tea and a Diet coke( google never fails, so does our show off).. that's it and for you.
See simply it's just a food date trying out foods which even I never heard .
Ask yourself : would you be sitting with this person if you weren't physically attracted to them? Be Honest............
You don't need to be perfect to be liked by him, perfection isn't relatable , owning your flaws and vulnerabilities is one of the most attractive things we can do , the right one will embrace the things you once felt you had to hide .
Umm.. so what makes you sit here and have this conversation? that chair gesture that I did wasn't just because you know you gotta be a gentleman in front of her , but because I wanted to show that you are valuable and worthy of respect , Blushing pro max right now( no such term exists by the way) , control Athena ..
Anyways that's not what I asked , you came to enjoy the free food date and I wanted a day off from work even though I was still working while waiting for you but this location sounds cool .
True gentleman: tells the worst truth instead of his best lie, is secure enough to have her stand in the limelight , makes a conscious effort to learn something new everyday , says what he feels , minds his manner and reads this without being offended .
What she wants: to be listened and not merely heard , to be vulnerable and feminine( have it safe to be both) , for him to know that whatever happens in the bedroom doesn't need to be discussed with friends...and it certainly doesn't set the tone for the rest of the relationship outside the bedroom, to trust and be trusted , to feel desired....
Alas , no need of formalities anymore , let's just talk after eating , quite impressive and can we just go on a night show ..
"If you want to be trusted be honest , if you want to be honest be true and if you want to be true be yourself"
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