Playing Dumb

*get's ghosted*

Me: thank you for the 10-day free trial

It's the 'grown - up' way of putting your fingers on your ears and going La La La La...I can't hear you. I be like : I don't have a short temper , I just react quickly to bullshit.

While it's easy to brag about being ghosted , it's harder to admit that many of us ghosted someone else.

You promise to review a resume , offer to speak on someone else's behalf , contact asap , provide feedback to your co-partner , but you don't follow through. While being on getting ignored phase , there are times when you yourself don't reply back to texts or that repeated email attempts , because you were busy or overwhelmed or not interested anymore ,or just anxious about having any sort of conversation.

Reasons why you get ghosted:

*lacks communication skills

*it has nothing to do with the ghostee , ghosters are more than a little selfish

*are spineless

*they are being childish

*can be lazy(most of the times) , manipulative

*closure is more comforting than letting yourself out

Why do you feel bad: there was no reason to fight over , worrying about every little thing , no idea about their sudden absence , relationship is coming to an end ....

Is it so easy to disappear? , stops responding on getting mistreated rather than confronting them , pleasure flirting could end up ignoring each other rather than just saying that they have lost interest ,feeling frustrated may leave you in isolation rather than shouting out the problem..

Only legends understand: you ghost me once , sorry! what was your name again?

Most interesting part is to know how different people react to it , let's spice it up , how different Zodiac signs react to it:

Aries: they'll be ticked off coz their time is valuable to them , get's disgruntled when they schedule someone to come in and ends up being ghosted.

Taurus: sensitive ones I must say , loyal , falling in love is a big deal , take ghosting way too personal , they are not hesitant to ask -hey! is everything okay?

Gemini: they are the one's who ghosts the most , love to talk but are non confrontational , being ghosted makes them realize how much it stings.

Cancer: they'll let you know how they feel , and their honest text is a hard pill to swallow ,they have big "not mad , but disappointed" energy and they know how to deal with it.

Leo: never begs for attention coz they know someone out their will appreciate them.

Virgo: good at rationalizing , they'll sense your desire to ghost them before you even start.

Libra: another sign who can sense ghosting , but they'll react by ghosting back ,if they feel someone is pulling away they'll try to beat them to punch . They'll start off at good conversations before jumping to conclusion.

Scorpio: have a hard outer shell but once ghosted end up being in isolation , only thing they can do is speak their heart out to a trusted friend.

Sagittarius: believe in "if you love them , let them go"

Capricorn: are really irritating , pride themselves on their maturity, get's easily frustrated if someone doesn't articulate their feelings .

Aquarius: on the outside they are thankful for the lack of confrontation but on the inside they are disappointed , super emotional but not good at conveying emotions.

Pisces: at last these , overflown with emotions all the time , they'll be heartbroken ,be vulnerable about everything they are experiencing.

"there really are a lot of fucking fish in the sea . cheer up . everyone can be replaced"

Being a Libra I can relate well to the situation , do let me know your zodiac sign and how true it says about you......